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Church Merger over at Intimate Church
Posted by Erik in Church, General, Heritage & Grace Merger on March 24, 2011
Over at the Intimate Church blog, I started posting pieces of the merger story from Bedford Road Baptist Church. I am posting things as I have time to edit and rewrite it.
If you want to read it, head over.
http://intimatechurch.wordpress.com/category/church-merger/
The posts are organized with the oldest at the bottom.
Focus on the the Front Sight!
Posted by Erik in Church, Growing Together, Heritage & Grace Merger on March 1, 2011
You’re going to make a major shift or change at a congregation. You think you know what you want to do. That’s great, but do you know what the result will be?
Most people (including church leaders) make decisions because they are focused on some element of the process. They like a certain style of worship, or they want new music or they want to ‘see people saved.’ But that sort of focus is wrong.
When I was learning to shoot, my instructors at Front Sight kept repeating, “Focus on the front sight!” It got irritating. I was focusing on the front sight! But they just kept saying it.
“Focus on the front sight!”
Over the course of four days, we fired off hundreds of rounds. I missed dozens of targets in spectacular fashion. What was I doing wrong? On the final night, something clicked in my head.
I wasn’t focused on the front sight.
I was looking at it but I was focused on a million other things – my grip, my back, my shoulders, my eye, the steps for clearing malfunctions. There were all kinds of other things in my head, and I wasn’t focused.
I took a breath. I relaxed my grip. I cleared my head. I aligned the sights, and then I focused on the front sight.
In the final shoot, I was the only member of our group from the church to qualify as a graduate, and I missed being a marksman by two points.

Look at the picture above. It is an image of a proper sight picture when firing a pistol. See how blurry the target is? That goes against our nature. Shouldn’t we be looking at where we want to put the bullet?
The answer is, “Yes, and you can do that by focusing on the front sight.“
See that middle post in the sight picture? That’s the front sight. When it is perfectly aligned inside the space created by the rear sights and you are focused on the front sight, you simply can’t miss. (Unless your sights get misaligned, and I speak from experience.)
Why is it so important? Picture a line drawn from the rear sight of the gun to the target. That line will always be straight. But with only two reference points, you’d never know the actual trajectory. The front sight adds a third point, a focal point to align your eye to the target. When you focus on it, it enforces the straight line. Like I said, when you do it right, you simply can’t miss. It’s junior high geometry really.
Think of leading a church when you look at that picture. The target is all the things you’d like to do with the congregation. You’d like to have a cool worship team, or you’d like to see people becoming disciples in amazing ways. Those are great; and they’re biblical. (Although I would say that the target of the church should actually be glorifying Christ, but I digress.)
Now, the rear sights of the picture are the people and relationships of the church. They’re strong and they’re close – just like that rear sight, but they’re easily misguided. They swing this way and that, and without a reference point, they’re not accurate. They’re all over the map.
Remember when I said that the front sight is a third point which aligns the barrel and makes a straight line to the target? Junior high geometry, right?
Here’s where we apply it to the church. The front sight is the reference point between the rear sights (people) and the target (glorifying Christ and all the thinks you want to do). The front sight is what the church needs to become in order to move straight toward the target.
During the merger process that resulted in Bedford Road Baptist Church, it was absolutely imperative that the elders and I kept the right focus. We had to constantly focus on what the congregation needs to be in order to do what is on the target. We needed to be a healthy, diverse group of people focused on Jesus.
Becoming a healthy, diverse group of people focused on Jesus was our focus – not how to merge programs or who got what positions or making sure every political base was covered at the business meetings. That constant focus on our front sight allowed us to deal with the winds of hurt feelings and bruised egos, and even the departure of dear friends over issues we hoped we could work out. When distractions came, we were so focused on the front sight that we dealt with them quickly so we could keep our focus tight.
If you want my advise, it is the same as the advice my shooting instructors gave to me.
Focus on the front sight!
Welcome to Bedford Road Baptist Church!
Posted by Erik in Church, Heritage & Grace Merger on November 16, 2010

Tonight, Heritage Baptist Church and Grace Baptist Church voted overwhelmingly to complete the merger of the legal corporations and become Bedford Road Baptist Church.
We are very excited about this step and the process that has brought us to it. We know the coming years will not be challenge free, but we know this is the way Christ is leading us as a part of His Church!
Here are a few of the lessons we learned along the way:
- Merging congregations is hard work.
- Things don’t happen quickly and you can’t force them. People have to develop relationships before they will respond.
- Start with good people. A merger of a healthy group of people and a toxic group of people will just produce more toxic people. We had a fantastic core of people on both sides who made this happen.
- Don’t be afraid of talking. We spent more time listening and talking with people in formal and informal settings than we did anything else.
- Lean on other leaders. This would not have happened if I had come in as a hired gun “fixing” everything. We have a solid core of elders who worked hard with other leaders and the congregation to shepherd the process in God’s time.
Our Band at Grace
Posted by Erik in Heritage & Grace Merger, Videos on November 14, 2010
Here’s Nichole and the band playing on November 14, 2010 – the last Sunday before our merger meeting!
A New Take on the Name
Posted by Erik in Announcements, Church, Heritage & Grace Merger on September 5, 2010
After discussing the candidate name of The Church on Bedford Road, the elders had enough of a sense of direction from the congregation that we chose to alter the candidate name to BEDFORD ROAD BAPTIST CHURCH.
As I’ve told many people, I could pastor Cardboard Box Baptist Church, as long as the congregation was behind the vision Jesus set before us. I am excited that we are nearing the end of this naming journey, and I look forward to discussing this option with everyone!
Along with the announcement of the name, we also talked quite a bit about our vision and how we will map out our ministries in the coming few months. If you missed it, head over to the website and download the message from Sunday.
Creed, pt 7 – The Church Growing Together
Posted by Erik in Growing Together, Heritage & Grace Merger on August 23, 2010
You can check out all the messages from the series Creed here.
- The Question of God
- The Gospel of the Son
- The Name and the Presence of the Spirit
- The Authority of the Word
- The Thud and the Crud
- Coming Together with Jesus
We apologize for the fuzziness in some of the audio. There’s an issue in our lines that we’re having trouble isolating.
Rather than discuss the doctrinal stuff involved in the church (known as ecclesiology), I thought I would share some links to a series I wrote last fall as we prepared for merging Heritage Baptist Church and Grace Baptist Church.
Part 1 – Introducing the Merger
Because we will be journeying together toward this merger, we will be posting some thoughts about the merger. Any time two congregations take a faith risk like this, there are a lot of concerns and we want to try to make sure we address these concerns.
Part 2 – Not Giving Up on “Old” Congregations
Here are some faulty assumptions about ‘established’ churches that do nothing but destroy the body of Christ.
Part 3 – Unifying Two Different Congregations
The intensely individualistic local church idea has to be rethought and possibly even rejected in order for it to happen. This product of modernism has bred distrust and disunity in the Church, and it is the biggest obstacle that has to be overcome.
Part 4 – We Are Not a Business
People are not our consumers; they are our fellow human beings. Salvation is not a commodity; it is a necessary gift, a divine blessing. Ministry is not our strategy to ‘get’ more people and preaching is not about ‘appealing’ to people
Part 5 – Redundancy
Redundancy is absolutely essential to survival as a church. When you only have one group of people who can accomplish a task, if something happens to those people, you are in a ‘dead stick’ situation. You’re going in and there is nothing you can do about it.
Part 6 – Expectations
We do expect God to do something awesome and we hope that this is what will happen. But we cannot expect this merger to fix all of our problems or answer all of our questions. Those expectations are too high and no matter how successful the merged congregation is, you are bound to disappointed.
Part 7 – First Meetings
Of course, the church is not the space they meet in, but I am posting it because compared to our current space, it looks positively HUGE.
Part 8 – Facing in a New Direction
For a church to grow together, they have to strike the balance between sitting together and working together. There are times for all of us to sit and learn, and other times when the seats should be emptied. There are times when we have to give our chairs to someone else; and other times when we need to take up a couple of chairs to rest.
Part 9 – Moving Forward
Just a quick update for everyone so you can know what is happening.
Part 10 – First Weekend Together
The big weekend is almost HERE! Our first Sunday worship service together with our sister congregation, Grace Baptist Church.
Part 11 – Schedule Changes
We have changed our schedule for the merger activities between Grace Baptist Church and Heritage Baptist Church.
Part 12 – First Weekend
There were nothing but positive thoughts from folks as things wound down and people headed out.
All in all, I don’t think it could have gone much better; and all the credit goes to our Lord Jesus!
Part 13 – Ministry without Borders
How do we build a ministry without these age borders? I have to think about it some more and try to engage the entire congregation a little better.
Part 14 – The Votes for Merger
The time is quickly arriving. It has been months since I first posted about the merger between Grace Baptist Church and Heritage Baptist Church, it had been four months in the making.
It is probably time for me to write parts 15-20, but I want to leave it for a moment and let things continue to play out.
Presenting A Candidate Name!
Posted by Erik in Announcements, Church, Heritage & Grace Merger on July 25, 2010
This morning, the elders announced the second candidate name for our merged congregation. The previous candidate, Sojourner Fellowship was deemed too lengthy and a bit obscure.
The candidate name is:
The Church on Bedford Road
The elders felt that this is the way most people know us. It is a familiar way to refer to our congregation, and it communicates far more to the community about our commitment to Merrimack and the greater region. Whenever you’re talking to someone who lives in Merrimack about the church, they almost never know the name. But if you say, “You know, the church on Bedford Road”, there is instant recognition.
It also fits our regional perspective on ministry. Think about it. If someone is going to come to church with you from Nashua, they have to come up the Everett Turnpike. They will turn onto Bedford Road at Exit 12. If they’re coming south from Manchester, how many times have we had to say, “You can’t take the Everett. There’s no southbound exit to Bedford Road.“
We chose this name for a few other reasons. Believe it or not, the term Baptist is in the subtitle for these reasons, and none of them are because the term Baptist is unpopular. In point of fact, some surveys show that people prefer when congregations identify themselves with a historical tradition.
- Most importantly, the term Baptist is a designation for believers. We have included it in our name but in a subtitle because we feel that communicates our commitment to the historical Baptist doctrine without crowding the name.
- The name “Bedford Road Baptist Church” simply doesn’t flow. It is hard to say, and we would wind up referring to the church as either BRBC (a very awkward acronym) or “Bedford Road.”
- What’s more, calling the church “Bedford Road Baptist Church” would place the geographic designator and the theological designator before the most important part of the name – that we are a part of the Church of Christ.
If you’re wondering why we did not go with the other geographic designator that has been kicked around – “Reed’s Ferry” – it is because people who live in the Reed’s Ferry area of Merrimack know that there are “Reed’s Ferry ____” all over the place – lumber yards, convenience stores. We did not want our Church – part of the greatest, most awesome movement ever to exist on the face of the earth – to get lost in the white noise of a name everyone associates with something else.
Believe it or not, we’re pretty much all there is on Bedford Road other than residences. We ‘own’ the street. We’re it for stuff on Bedford Road, so if we put it out there, people will know immediately who we are.
Easter 2010 Pictures
Posted by Erik in Church, Heritage & Grace Merger, Media, Movies and TV on April 11, 2010
Our friends over at Charles Dunn Photography did some pictures of our Easter service for us, so I though I’d share them. The pictures are also available over at facebook. (link below)
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Easter Summary
Posted by Erik in Church, Heritage & Grace Merger on April 5, 2010
Still a little skippy from yesterday. It was an excellent day:
- The Nashua Telegraph ran an excellent article on our merger in their Sunday edition. Front page and very favorable.
- Our music teams did an excellent job presenting the message of Christ. (Videos below)
- We had 132 people in attendance, including children.
- We had at least four new families as well as a couple of returning guests and most awesomely a couple of pre-merger families who chose Easter to return and I think were very pleasantly surprised.
Here are some videos from Easter. They were shot with a cameraphone, so they are not the greatest quality but you get the idea.
Growth Barriers Coming, post 1
Posted by Erik in Church, Heritage & Grace Merger on March 30, 2010
This Sunday, over 100 people worshiped with us at Grace! (101 to be exact.) It is the second time our congregation has tipped the triple digits in the last few months, and we have danced around 90 or so for the entire time as well. In theory if everyone who calls Grace their church were to show up, we’d have about 120 people but that rarely happens.
The interesting challenge of our congregation hitting 100 is that it is actually two growth barriers for us. Because we are a merged church, we have two groups that are integrating with one another. These two groups were different sizes when they came together, so they are facing the challenges of being a bigger group to start with but also that this bigger group is starting to attract people.
I’m going to start a series of posts talking about the challenges of growing through the 100-150 barriers and still maintaining a healthy level of relationship and fellowship because the biggest issue people have with growth is that the Sunday morning attendance outgrows what they consider a comfortable size. Relationships get stretched, and people get stressed.
Stick with me on this one!



